Diary Update:

When I first decided to change my name, I had no idea how much of an impact it would have on my life. I quickly realized that changing your name in one place can cause a domino effect, and that there are many different documents and accounts that need to be updated.

Today was a busy day for me as I continued to update my name with various organizations and institutions. I changed my name with the bank, the electoral vote, National Insurance, doctors, dentists, and even my telephone company. It was a lot to do in one day.

At times, it was incredibly stressful and overwhelming. I felt like I was constantly playing catch-up, and I worried that I would miss something important. But through it all, I kept my goal in mind: to live authentically and to honor my true self.

The most difficult and annoying part of the process was updating my passport. Although the process was entirely online, it still required a lot of attention to detail and a fair amount of patience. I was relieved to have completed this step, as it is an important document that I need for travel and identification purposes.

Another challenge was updating my driver’s license with the DVLA. I needed to apply for a new provisional license with my new name, and the process involved filling out several forms and providing a fair amount of documentation (including a new photo). But once again, I persevered and was able to complete this step.

If you’re considering changing your name, I encourage you to take things slow and to plan ahead. Don’t rush the process, and don’t feel like you need to change everything all at once. Take the time to research the different documents and accounts that will need to be updated, and create a plan of action.

And most importantly, don’t let the process discourage you. It can be challenging and overwhelming at times, but the end result is worth it. Once everything is updated, you’ll never have to do it again.